♥ firstlove88 ♥

Long awaited JB trip. lol. actually wanna go before special sem start but drag till now.

anyway got up damn early on a sunday..the day before i slept at like 3am which is my usual sleeping time. lol. by right suppose to be meeting at 10am, i was late and then all the travelling, reached JB like 11:45pm.

We had mary brown!

After filling our stomachs, we prepare for the shopping spree. actually by 3++we already done. gotten what we want. lol.

got my 1 year supply of contact lens, went etude house and basically buy things without seeing the price because they were having great discounts. up to 70% on all items. many things have already gone out of stock. i always love the etude house there cuz whenever i go, is always on sales not like sg one. bought 3 stuff, 1 of which is 29.90SGD, but the 3 stuff i bought is only $28 in total! -_-".

back home by evening time. damn tired!

below is li hua loots of the day. okay is a bit luan i know. lol.

ta dah here's mine. the 2 slippers were for boy. there's a story behind why i bought 2 not because the design is damn chio or what.

So here goes the story:

the very first time i went jb with esther that was the time i bought the most stuff! lol. i went to dig out the photo and post it here!

okay see that blue robot slippers on the left! is all along in my house as boy never bring it home to put.

so my trip was in july 2009, only this year then he bring home to wear it around.

But, sometimes when he go book out and head home straight before meeting me, many a times he couldn't find his slippers. and thats his only slippers at that point of time. so no choice he got to find socks and wear shoes. -_-".

why he couldn't find it??

1) got stolen (which is not possible cuz he never put it outside and even keep in cupboard!!!)

2) not stolen but taken without permission by others to wear --> thats always the case!

the worse thing that ever happen to the blue robot slippers is..worn by others and never be back again. this was not the worse case actually, but now yes it is. the 2nd worse case was worn by others and back but damn dirty. so my boy got to spend the time to washing it and then wear it again.

did boy say that he do not want the slippers anymore???

people might think," ai ya is just a slipper only so easily replace why bother so much??"then why don't those who take his slippers go and replace their own slippers and stop taking his slippers??? if thats your only slippers will u bother so much and is given by your love one will you bother so much? boy never expect his slippers to get 'stolen' and never be back at all till now.

By taking other things without permission shows there's no mutual respect! it doesn't matter whether is it easily replace or whatsoever lor.

he told me:" you know at times i don't understand why they like to take my slippers, when they got so chio shoes, nike somemore, and so many pairs, i can just take it and wear out make it dirty and throw it there when i come home..but i can't make myself do it.."

I know his slippers very chio, temptation to take it is very high, cannot resist it, but the least a human can do is to ask right??? even though i know those sisters who share clothes, no need to ask, cuz at least it will come back right??? share bag..also got come back right?? as far as i know i know boy don't share his clothes with his siblings even though his got get worn before.

I may not be that close to my blood brother, but trust me, everytime i go into his room, for example that time i play with his transformer toy, i don't even dare move to my own room to play and never return lor! Since young he never scold me before, never beat me or whatsoever, but at least there's mutual respect between us.

When he want to use my computer to print stuff he will sms me and notify me lor. I never lock my computer, he can just do it and without saying what why bother??? thats beacuse he know is my computer, my printer. the basic mutual respect between us.

okay enough of the mutual respect thingy, is something everyone should know! Is not something to be taught lor, is cultivated into you since young.

so i got 2 slippers for him at a go, guess my boy gonna put lock around his slippers cuz by keeping it in the cupboard is no use. if not all will gone missing without him knowing again. its not about being selfish, is about the need of a person to ask before taking someone else things when it wasn't meant to be shared in the first place beacuse thats the only slippers he had.