#savethedate | Two More Months

Hello October! 

This was suppose to be posted up few days back but I totally forgot about it. I dayre about it instead so here I am, transferring and probably adding on to what I've wrote there. 

#savethedate.

No prize for guessing correctly the theme of the wedding :P

It's the final 2 months countdown! If I say I don't feel the stress, it's definitely not true. In actual fact, my stress level only keeps going up.

Many stuffs have been finalized but there are also many outstanding issues waiting to be close and can only be close during the final month.

One very good example is the guests list and seating plan.

The hardest part is not planning who to sit where because we don't have much tables. But the shuffling going on after guests have confirmed/drop out is never ending. We decide to leave it till the few weeks to do the final shuffling.

And the question I got most from people is

"When's your wedding date again?"

Oh well, we concluded we are probably the only one who will really save the date in our calendar and remember about it. We can't expect everyone to have the habit of saving the date in their calendar.

We send out the first batch of invitiation cards via snail mail few days ago. Cross fingers that we will get lesser of that question because the actual day is nearing very soon. You may call us paranoid or what, but all this questions do make us more stress lol.

"If things don't goes on as planned, it's alright. Just enjoy the process :) " 

This is what we have been telling each other and constantly keeping this sentence in our mind.  It seems to be the hardest thing to do but logically speaking, we will be too busy on the day itself and we won't be aware of what went wrong. 

I still remember how relief we felt when our ROM was over. Everything went as planned even though some friends were late. However, we went ahead to sign the paper since the important witnesses are around. It's not nice to delay the JP's time. 

When all the guests have left and after the mini photoshoot, we went back to our hotel room to rest and it's really 'ORD'! 

I should just keep calm and enjoy being the bride. Looking forward to the 'ORD' day! To all the brides to be out there, hang on! It's once in a life time so one must enjoy the process :) Fighting!